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    New here.... and struggling

    Hello there,

    My name is Jemma and i've been with my partner dean for 4years. we have a 2 year old daughter together. He's currently out in Afghanistan and has got 6weeks left. He's been there for 13 weeks already.

    Time is dragging now we are near the end. I'm sure you guys understand. So anyone else who has a partner in Afghanistan or away at the moment. Would be good to have some support.

    Jem

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    Ow do and welcome lass. Theres always support on here whether OH's are away or not. Some of our OH's are away, some been, some waiting, its a mixed bag.
    Feel free to browse round and make a post where you wish.
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    Hiya and welcome

    Aww these 6 weeks will fly by, nearly hometime

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    hun there are a great bunch of ladies in this fourm they will give you support sweetie.... i found it really helpfull being on this forum

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    Welcome to the site!
    and as said above there will be a lot of people on here that understand how your feeling!!

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    Welcome. We all understand. Just drink more!!
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    Haha @ Lawlady! Yeah, the more you drink the less you'll remember, therefore time will pass by in no time

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    Re: New here.... and struggling

    Hiya nice to meet you and welcome

    sparklexx

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    hello!
    *huge hugs*
    6 weeks will fly by, at least you know exactly when your gonna see your OH again, i know i'm not the only one where everything is totally up in the air about things like that at the minute
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    hun there are a great bunch of ladies in this fourm


    and bloke on this FORUM.
    Welcome to the mad house

    Barry.

    Wish you girley type peeps would stop forgetting moi.
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    hi Bazzar lol, listen hun at one point or another i think every girlfriend, wife, and friend goes through exactly what you are going through however you have a good support network on this forum, there is always someone who may be able to relate to you situation in some way shape or form....my advice is to keep busy, if you are to busy to think about it the time will go in no time at all....

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    Naafi

    Safe journey luv.
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    thanks Bazzer, my OH is going ot be calling me at about 3ish so hopefully my plane wont be delayed any more and he will be able to get through

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    My OH is on his first tour in Afghanistan as well hun. Thirteen weeks have gone and six to go. What regiment is he in?

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    Mine same place too. Just gone so loads of time left Folks here are fantastic and we all understand. Like I said first off drink more!!
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    Hi Jemma and Welcome. I know what you are going through as I have been there. I would just like to say that this site really does help as there are a lot of women & men (bazzer) who have various life experiences that they share or use to help you. As lawlady says drink more and the days become a blur

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    hi, you've come this far, sit tight, lots of wine and b4 u know it you will be back in his arms.
    my fella left to go back to camp this morn, flies to Afghan tomorrow for 7months, im reading all the posts on this site to tell myself i can get thru it, tho im a smudgy mess of masacra & snot at the mo!
    chin up tho luv-just think how good its gonna be when u get there x

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