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    Senior Member Bazzer's Avatar
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    Re: Helloooooooo

    the folks are great
    We are???????

    Wait 'till you see OH strutting his stuff at Passing Out.
    The Old Git sitting at the bar on his own. Moaning

    Eat shit. 5 million flies can't be wrong.

    Danger. Do NOT Feed the Bazzers

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    Re: Helloooooooo

    it's been mentioned in other threads about writing a diary or letters to the OHs when they are on tour. Perhaps your 12 yr old could write letters to your OH or write a diary. And you too if you have the time, maybe last thing at night when you go to bed?

    Give it time, you'll find a way to deal with this that will work for you and your kids.
    choc-chip cookie x

    Some people are like slinkies, they're really good for nothing...but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down a flight of stairs!

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    Re: Helloooooooo

    Thank you so much for your replies, its my birthday today and its been really hard, I just wish he could share it with me.
    I woke up this morning to a text on my fone wishing me happy birthday so that was nice and my best friend has taken me out for lunch why the kids was at school.
    Im just trying to keep busy at the moment, Iv got the paint to start on my son's bedroom. The house will be totally different by the time he gets home, whereas some people clean to keep busy, i decorate lol.

    The diary and letters sound like a good idea tho, im gona go to town tomorrow and pick up some paper and diaries. Thank u for that idea

    God help me if im like this now and he is only on basic, what am I gona be like when he goes away on tour lol


    Thank u everyone for listening to me drone on and on xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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    Re: Helloooooooo

    You'll get through it. The more time goes on, the more used I get to the idea of my boyfriend being away for long stretches. I don't think it gets easier...but you do learn to cope better.

    Oh, and Happy Birthday!

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    Belated Greetings for beginning to catch me up.
    The Old Git sitting at the bar on his own. Moaning

    Eat shit. 5 million flies can't be wrong.

    Danger. Do NOT Feed the Bazzers

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    Re: Helloooooooo

    Happy belated birthday. Glad you got out with your friend on your birthday....see you got through it, even if it did feel a hard thing to do. You can do it, it'll just take time to come to terms with being more independent.
    choc-chip cookie x

    Some people are like slinkies, they're really good for nothing...but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down a flight of stairs!

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    Re: Helloooooooo

    Hiya and thanks for the birthday wishes. I am feeling alot better now, my OH has been ringing me when he gets in bed so I know hes thinkin about me.
    You are all right it does get easier, the nights are the hardest, getting in bed alone but iv put his pillow down as if hes lay next to me lol, i can cuddle it whenever i need to now, i know it sounds soft but it helps to get me off to sleep lol

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