Thread: Thank you so much and full respect to all of you

Hey there,
I don't know if you remember me or not, but I was active a few months ago when my boyfriend had a 2 and a half month det not long after we started seeing each other.
Well, to cut a long story short, he broke up with me 2 weeks before he got back, after I waited for him. I think it was because he met someone else, who he admitted flirting with and kissing- the flirting when we were still together, the kissing as soon as he'd 'broken up with me' over facebook (by changing his relationship status). When he came back I spent 2 months trying to get back with him, and he strung me along by seeing me casually and promising me we would get back together. Two months down the line and we're not back together, and he's back over there in a sandy place. And apparently he wants me back.
But anyway, I haven't been able to face coming on here since it happened. So much of what you all said to me was true and I was so stupid putting my dependence before supporting him. Moaning at him down the phone. So stupid and I regret it so much. But hey, he'd probably have got with this girl anyway, I don't know. He's a slimeball anyway, full respect to him for his job and what he does, but he is very much disliked by everyone that knows him.
So I want to say thank you for all of the support you gave me and for being the wonderful community that you are, I thought I owed it to come and say goodbye properly so I can try to move on with my life.
You are amazing people and only people who have to deal with the same things know truly what it's like. The support you give to your other halves is like nothing else.
All the best.

Sorry to hear that.

Glad to hear that your moving on though. There are plenty more fish in the sea that are not so stupid as that one.

Sam x

Sorry to hear it csm3, some men are so stupid.

Glad that you're doing ok now though, and good luck.

Scuba xx

aww I'm sorry to here that.

I'm glad you're moving and good luck with everything.

Who knows we may even see you on here again sometime

xx

Good luck csm3!! sorry to hear of the break-up and hopefully it will be onward and upward for you

Aww csm3 am sorry to hear your news.

Big hugs to you and don't be a stranger xx

Aww csm3 am sorry to hear your news.

Big hugs to you and don't be a stranger xx

Csm3 there's no reason for you to not return to the forums. Anyway sorry to hear about the breakup. Some people can be scumbags, uniform or no.

Glad to hear you're looking forward. xx

I agree, it's not the same scenario as I'm soon to deal with but nevertheless, it is motivating to me to read about someone being so strong and positive in a bad situation.

Best of luck in everything and don't be a stranger!

Thank you everyone, you're really lovely!

What with me having an ex in the RAF and one in the army, who knows what will happen!
But for now I'm back with my (civvy) ex who I broke up with in January after we'd been together for 3 years, and we had a lovely holiday together in July. In a way I wish I'd never broken up with him so none of this had ever happened, but what did happen made me so much stronger, and forced me to be single for the first time for a long time, and I like to think I've maintained a lot of my independence. So I'm trying to put it all down to experience.
I don't think there's much point in me posting here because I can't offer very much insight...but I will stick around and check you're all doing okay Thanks for making me feel like such a part of a community!

You'll never guess...
My current boyfriend is intent on joining the army (Royal Signals)!
So I obviously just attract military types or am attracted to them? :roll:

I doubt anything will happen what with full capacity, government cuts etc,
but if it does, I'll be straight back here if I'm still welcome :wink:

Hiya,

I had a sneaky suspision that we'd see you back on here

Welcome back

Thanks

Nice to be remembered...if for all the wrong reasons!
Might have to change my username though considering what it means...doesn't exactly apply anymore! :roll: