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Discuss Stressed out! in Partners - Wives, Girlfriends, Boyfriends, Husbands on Rear Party; This probably/definitely doesn't deserve a new thread, sorry. But I didn't really know what else to do. It's halfway through tomorrow. I know I should be happy, but I'm really not! Mr csm has moved ...
  
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    Senior Member csm3's Avatar
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    Stressed out!

    This probably/definitely doesn't deserve a new thread, sorry. But I didn't really know what else to do.

    It's halfway through tomorrow. I know I should be happy, but I'm really not!
    Mr csm has moved somewhere else and will be there for the rest of the duration, and he was the only one of his lot to have to move. He's doing ridiculously long shifts and the time we get to speak to each other has been dramatically reduced. I feel horribly lonely because I'm mostly at home by myself, even though I do see friends- I did last night and I will tomorrow night, and today I went to the gym with someone- I seem to feel happy for a little while and then I'm just down again. I have some work that needs doing but I just can't seem to motivate myself to do it, nor can I motivate myself to make plans with friends.
    Yeah, I know, I'm a loser! All the days just seem to be blurring into one.
    Well I feel a bit better for moaning anyway :P

    The other thing is that there is the potential for something quite worrying which may or may not happen, so if anyone who knows a lot about tours could message me and answer my questions, that would be a really big help. I don't think I need to say anything that compromises security, whatsoever, but still I don't want to just put it out here.

    CSM

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    Re: Stressed out!

    Hi CSM

    I know this is a really tough time and I can empathise with your situation and how you are feeling right now. I understand that it can feel really lonely at times, especially if you have experienced some changes (your OH being moved). All I can say is hang in there chick and know that it will get better. It might not seem like it at the moment but it will get a little easier soon. You are a strong woman and you will adjust to the changes.

    I know that 'half way' still seems like a long time left, but just think how far you have come in that time. You are doing fantastic and should be proud of yourself. I'm sure your man will be. First tours are very tough for both. Hang on in there. Make the most of the moments you do get to speak to him. Keep as busy as possible and plan some of the wonderful things you both can do together when he returns.

    I dont know lots about tour information so cant help much there but if you ever want to chat about anything, feel free to PM me. I know it certainly helps me a lot when I get like that.

    Take Care
    x

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    Re: Stressed out!

    Thanks Kasha, and people that have messaged me, you've been so sweet.
    I know I'm a big pain but I'm literally brand new to this!

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