Thread: Need a place to moan? Don't need a reply? Fill your boots!

I sort of started an argument with the OH. I'm so angry at myself. Last time he was out on exercise he said he hated the fact that he'd missed a whole week of what was going on with me. So today I asked him why he felt that, the reply was 'dont know'....followed by me saying 'not because you care then'...no response by him. he never asks how I am so I pointed out that he doesnt know how my weeks been or if im feeling better from last weekend cos he never asks how I am. It turns out im not ok. He knows I have a terrifying appointment coming up on tuesday and he hasnt bothered. I know he's busy and I know Im at the of the priority list but he's the only one who knows about this and i'm kinda angry hes not been there. he pointed out that I dont understand how busy he is and that I accepted his job with him and that I should know he cares. Why should I just know he cares?? It doesnt take massive gestures, just a how are you every now and again.

God i'm so damn selfish

had the crappest week and feeling sorry for myself, got raging toothache on tuesday but couldnt get to the dentist until friday, wednesday we had to go to a family funeral (his) we traveled 3 1/2 hours each way to have his mum and sister make snide comments and give us dirty looks, didnt even talk to our kids, talk ha she hasnt seen them in 3 years, even missed my nans 90th birthday for it, had to celebrate that on thursday, friday they came to replace all our windows leaving the place like an ice box and i finally got to the dentist only to be told I have two infected teeth, and oh joy I get to keep one :x now its sunday and ive had to go back again becouse the antibiotics arent strong enough sick of my teeth and sick of his family

Just having a week of feeling rough and sorry for myself, which considering the light that's round the corner, sounds a little self-centred.

OH is home on leave a week on Friday, and that may as well be a year away, it can't come quick enough. He's not having a brilliant time of things, either. The RN recognise the support families give? Rubbish!!

We're getting married very soon now, and far from getting nervous, I'm so excited I'm like a child at Christmas. Time is just dragging.

Work's dull and going nowhere at the moment. My boss is disinterested, and I'm banging my head against a brick wall. The weather's absolutely terrible - and don't I know it, no St John's Wort this year because of the Pill! Mum and dad are too far away to visit and at times like these, I just get a little bit lonely!

Even the cat has given up sitting on the sofa beside me, preferring to reside in the cupboard above the hot water tank.

Times like these I just wish the Padre was just down the road, I could do with a cuppa and a chat.

Sorry for offloading, but feel a bit better already

I'm so, so sick of some people moaning cos their OH is away for one night, or god forbid a whole weekend! I know I signed up for this and I will happily wait for several weeks/months to see mine but it still grips my sh*t that some people can't cope for one paltry weekend! Get a grip. And breathe......

I feel better already

Ugh. I was lying awake at 4:30 this morning missing OH and feeling annoyed that the time that has passed he wasn't even meant to be away for because of stupid flights...and my ex texts me apparently drunk and crying and gives me the suicide blackmail...and all i can do is tell him to go to sleep because things will look better in the morning and all he can do is keep texting and apologising for screwing things up...and I have to tell him what he wants to hear just to stop him doing anything stupid. Really REALLY didn't need this today...it meant I overslept once again and I have so many things to do today and so little motivation...I could really just get back into bed and sleep and try and forget it all.

Well after having a really good two weeks holidays and all that, big row last night, not speaking, it's his birthday tomorrow and he's off to the sandy place in two weeks.It is his fault, but yet again I'm going to have to back down and be the first to say or do something and I so don't want to but if I don't in two weeks time I'm going to be kicking myself for wasting precious time. Men are such BASTARDS (sorry couldn't star that one out!) I hate him I hate him I hate him....... Feel slightly better now.

I hate fecking Sundays.

3 hours of my life wasted shovelling someone elses extremely disgusting sh1t around, because he is too damn lazy to do it himself, and on top of that some moron decides to practically mow me down in his Astra as I'm walking to my house, and when I turn around to say something at him, he starts mouthing profanities through the window, gives me the finger and drives off!

I know my problem, I need to tell myself to grow up. But 5 years of my life are about to come to an end and I'm getting married, moving to another country and can see myself with a nipper in the not so distant future.

I've lived in the same university city for the last 5 years and although I'm not a student anymore there's something that ties me to this place and the thought that I can never go off for a sneak pint or 7 in afternoon with my mates is worth crying over. But then, my mates left 2 years ago if I think about it, I've just been making new ones ever since so surely I can make new friends where I'm going? Even if I don't speak the language and i'll be self-employed.

Just feeling a bit of pressure at the moment. He leaves in 4 weeks and then the next time we're really together will be our wedding day. Then that's it. Forever. I'm starting to feel like a grown up and I don't know if I like it!

I do love him, yes I want to get married and tak more control of my life in the job sense and yes I want a family. I just didn't think it would all happen now!

Just realised I need a kick up the backside for that last post...I'm growing up and I need to put up and shut up, it is what I want after all and having these thoughts is just making me shoot myself in the foot - but thanks for letting me vent!

I want my laptop back, left it at my mums when visiting last week and am not travelling 3 hrs to get it.. Will get it on the way to visit the in-laws at the begining of april.. just have to keep using 1 of hubbys laptops and deal with his whinging cause he needs both apparently.. why someone needs to use 2 laptops at once i have no idea. Ahh i want mine back

aahhhhhhhh - get a fkin life

Not really a proper moan but I'd nearly forgotten how hot my BF is I needed photos to remind me!!! I want him home NOW!!

Only one thing's certain at the moment. I hate uncertainty.

So let me get this 100% straight in my head.

I was really ill over Xmas and I am now on a treatment programme that will last the rest of the year. You have not once offered to help with anything, and on the odd occasion you do call me you pretend that you don't know that I am ill.

Therefore I am just a bit put out that you rung me in a state of anxiety this morning, expecting sympathy, advice and expecting me to hoof it round to your gaff. All this because, wait for it, your effing cat is peeing blood. :roll: :twisted:

Ugh its Monday in 6 minutes! And London again in 24 hours... I so hate weekdays...

STAB STAB STAB STAB STAB with a pair of scissors.

omg why did you move him into a room where he can't use the internet?
and why do you turn off phone and internet for 24 hours for no apparent reason... :evil:
I mean christ take my boyfriend away from me for who knows how many months and don't give him any of the letters I send him but for god's sake give us a 5 minute phonecall...
So then his mum phones me because he told her I was worried about him...FML.
This didn't make much sense.
But nor does life.
RARGH
:lol:

Jesus fukcing christ just go SICK, it doesn't make you a biff!!!!

Missing my friends and family back home. I can't now go see them as planned due to fecking work.
I only have 3 days off that week rather than the 8 planned. (that'll learn me for not actually submitting by planned leave to my boss as I do it) half a day each end to travel from cornwall to London, not going to get to see everyone.
one of my friends said, don't come plan another week, but book it! I know this is the sensible thing to do, that way I get to see everyone and won't be uptight about time, just feel like a let down.

mind you Oh has his dates away now confirmed (in pencil as always) so can def look to planning something then as well.