Thread: Sex Every Day for a Month

Has anyone tried this as a way of kickstarting their sexlife?

TLCx

Never tried it but heard of it. I'm not convinced by it though. When we were trying to create baby tree the advice was sex every other night to stand the best chance. We followed it to the letter (just for the record it didn't work that way) but it really did feel like a chore and that made it the last thing I wanted to do. I think the one a day for a month might have the same effect.

Sadly at the moment that would involve having sex with someone who wasn't Mr K on about 16 days of the month and Sonny Bill Williams isn't returning my calls . I did read a few years ago about a married couple who were both psychologists (I think) and had decided to split up. As an experiment they forced themselves to behave as if they were still in love i.e. kiss on the lips goodbye each morning and so on for a month. After a month they were back in love and stayed together.

i think at the start of a relationship (sexual side), it's fun, makes a bond stronger, opens you both up emotionally (unless either party is as cold as ice). But in a longer relationship, every day, like it's said above, it can become a chore.

Shake it up, get a lil kinky

I'll need a cleaner ,a cook and a nanny. Honestly , it would kill me and the waterbill alone, hate the sticky feeling after sex

I'm all for sex every day
Sadly the slaughterhouse look isn't a good one!

when we are in the same country we are at it twice a day if not more (but then I do only get to see him at weekends, and school holidays!) He says he goes back to work for a rest and will need to up his vitamin intake when I get back for good!
If you make it a 'rule' it may become a chore.... do it as often as you feel like!

We have sex about five days a week.

Sometimes we're even in the same room.

Beebs x

Yup we were at it like rabbits before we got married and had children, then my priorities changed. His didn't! There are times when we can go a month without sex, then other times I can't go 2 days. I must admit, the more sex we have, the more I want it, so I can see it working.
I might suggest it to Mr M!

Many thanks for the replies, and thanks for being so honest!!

We are adjusting to living together after him being away every Monday to Friday for five years, and we need kickstarting. Totally seduced him the other night whilst he was half asleep (it was 3am) and I am still not sure he was 100% happy about it.

TLC x

Rather than thinking about it as sex every day for a month to try and kick start things, just think of wicked ways to tease each other during the day, brushing past seductively etc, when you are out shopping whispering something you want to do to them etc.

Sometimes it's not the act, it's the anticipation and run up to it that kick starts things.

Originally Posted by Feisty one

Rather than thinking about it as sex every day for a month to try and kick start things, just think of wicked ways to tease each other during the day, brushing past seductively etc, when you are out shopping whispering something you want to do to them etc.

Sometimes it's not the act, it's the anticipation and run up to it that kick starts things.

Tried this, and sexy texts. The thing is, I am hoping to kickstart things as he never, ever initiates sex, it's all come to a bit of head really (no pun intended). I can spend ages getting him "ready to go" but it is a bit one-sided when he finally gets there.

TLC x

A man who never initiates sex!? Should we swap!

Have you tried just talking about it? I had a bit of a wobble a few months back and was never really bothered, then we where like, remember when we first met and we used to do that, or when we were here, and had a good old giggle, sort of brings the spark back cos it takes you back to the beggining. Not sure if it's great advice, but definatly helped when i was never bothered about it.

Blondz x

Originally Posted by Feisty one

Sometimes it's not the act, it's the anticipation and run up to it that kick starts things.

absolutely - some drawn out suggestive foreplay goes a long way!!

Nothing wrong with sex every day, it is fine and keeps one fit: and, there is nowhere is the original post which says it has to be with the same woman though!

Typed reply but it did not upload, so this may be a duplicate reply.

Tried talking, his reasons range from tired to stressed, backed to tired.

I have lost weight (he has gained three stone this year), got rid of my winter coat and the badger is killed regularly (if you get my gist).

Going to give this a really good effort on all fronts (snigger) but if it fails, I am really not sure of my next move.

Part of me a little bit worried that he just does not fancy me anymore to be honest.

TLC x

Originally Posted by Tootsie_Le_Coq

Part of me a little bit worried that he just does not fancy me anymore to be honest.

TLC x

My hubby went through this stage - I just didn't want it. We went about 3 months with him constantly pestering, but I just didn't feel sexy enough. He thought I didn't fancy him anymore. It wasn't that, its because I didn't like my own body. You say he's put on weight whilst you've lost it, perhaps thats why he's not in the mood anymore. maybe he thinks you'll find him unattractive because you've lost weight. talk to him about it.

Well anything is worth a try! I definatly couldn't do it everyday, I'm a little fragile !!

If you are saying he has gained weight this year...It might be his part that is feeling like we do when we put a bit of weight ect on, I know I definatly didn't want to when I was larger.

I'm pretty sure we can all help, enough expieriance to write a book on here no doubt!! Don't worry !

Bxx

Don't they say that have a week (or few days) of doing some really erotic foreplay type stuff, sexy massages, lots of touching, but have a no sex rule... that way you get all steamy and worked up, and then have to wait... mental stimulation (even for men) can be a huge turn on......

However, at the mom, I am just gagging for Mr P to come home and clear away the cobwebs, does every day for 2wks r&r count...??

I struggle to get sex every month.

(looking for a tearful emoticon now)