Thread: Thirteen!

Would you let your 13 year old daughter go out dressed like this.?

Now it may be just me, but if a grown up man made advances on her, who's fault would it be? The mans, or her parents for allowing her out in 4" heels and an ass skimming dress?

8O I would love to say that this is out of the ordinary, but I can't. My almost-13 year old daughter goes to birthday parties where this sort of outfit can be seen on 11 year olds upwards :cry:

I bought her a really nice dress from Tammy, with a nice little shrug thing and a pair of pumps, she looked really pretty. We did her hair but she has no interest in make up whatsoever.

She was the only one not in these four/five inch high heels - although none of the girls could walk in them and ended up barefoot.

I have said it many, many a time and I know I must sound repetitive but when will these parents learn that peer pressure is not created by children, its created by parents who just can not say the word no.

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I know just what you mean TLC, my daughters nearly 14 and i see skirts this length on some of the girls going to school, my girl keeps trying to convince me ' all the girls do it' and yes most of them do but shes not . what scares me even more is when she comes home on a monday and laughs at the girls in her class who are hungover from the weekend, I will admit she has a couple of mini skirts ( not quite that short !) and some heels for going out, I guess ive been lucky so far she hasnt been invited to those sort of partys yet, fingers crossed.